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dMw Chit Chat => The Beer Bar => Seriously though ... => Topic started by: smite on September 02, 2007, 08:49:14 PM

Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: smite on September 02, 2007, 08:49:14 PM
Wish i had done this a few years ago... More from i am someone who has routines and likes to stick to them. Well that's screwed :flirty:.
I'm sure it would have been easier in my Twenties but then my Tolerance level was far worse than it is now.
 
The first four weeks have been tiring and tomorrow i start back at work..... First time in years i am looking forward to going back to Work.
 
This may sound negative but it's not meant that way it's more that nobody in any words can prepare you for this little person coming into your life and how it will affect you.
 
btw the counting to 10 thing sux.... the walking away hugging the dog, crying and using his ears as a towel is better :blink:.
 
As to show im not all miserable more pics added.
 
FAO Jas: leave these alone or im gonna slap ya :boxing:
 
http://www.smite.eclipse.co.uk/isabella/
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Anonymous on September 02, 2007, 10:04:17 PM
People kept telling me it would change my life but of course you just dont realise HOW MUCH!!!

It would take two hours just to get from the house to the car to go out somewhere :roflmao:
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Lee on September 02, 2007, 10:25:30 PM
I bet LR is panicing wondering what he has to come! Ah well i heard that daughters are worse.

Nice pics Smite! :flirty:
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Blunt on September 02, 2007, 10:41:00 PM
Babies are the most trying, inconvenient, tiring, smelly & loud things made by man.

as they get older, they get easier to deal with from your present perspective, but they constantly change the problems you have to face; it's a new thing every few months, just when you think you got it sussed, up comes another aspect that you don't expect.

all worth it in the end (if you can ever get a pint out of em:sideways:)

@ Lee...girls are 20x worse:eyebrow:
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Benny on September 02, 2007, 10:48:43 PM
The thing no-one told me was that you get sooo close to shaking them stupid when they are crying for the 50th night in a row, for no reason.

It's an incredibly fine line and whilst I can't fully understand, you can see how some people could go too far. Thankfully I haven't and my two have got past the colic, non-communicating stage.

Just as my teenagers re-enter the non-communicating phase, and shaking them seems to do bugger all.
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: ghoule211 on September 03, 2007, 12:28:03 AM
the alfa has permo marker on the windows in the back..

puke on one of the seats in the back... also pregnancy juice wife went into labour waters broke in my car :crying:

took five hours to clean it and restore the leather and now i'm going into jag ownership i dont want the kids in the car

other than tat always late never early
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: MAD_ness on September 03, 2007, 12:53:17 AM
congrats Mick.... thought I would have got a call to let me know of the new arrival ???...
 
hope all is well anyway ..
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: target on September 03, 2007, 02:40:01 PM
Kids are by far the most life changing event any couple can go through (and the scariest....) and I think the most rewarding.  Thing is, nobody ever tells you just how much things are going to change.
 
I wouldn't change the experiences our three have given us - our eldest starts secondary school on Wednesday (eek! Where have the years gone :sad:)
 
Congratz Smite and enjoy your new adventure :D
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Dewey on September 03, 2007, 03:32:49 PM
Hi Smite, made me laugh when I read your post as a new father myself -

Isabella Dewey born on 4 August - can't be far of when yours was born (and good name chosen my man :D

Like you I feel its been a huge change, but one I'm enjoying, yes its hard when they cry and cry though izzy only cries when theres something wrong so I can't fault her for that. And though I'm biased as hell I think she's gorgeous :)

http://www.hull.ac.uk/designs/izzy/

Sleep is for wimps!! :woot2:

Quote from: smite;203917Wish i had done this a few years ago... More from i am someone who has routines and likes to stick to them. Well that's screwed :flirty:.
I'm sure it would have been easier in my Twenties but then my Tolerance level was far worse than it is now.
 
The first four weeks have been tiring and tomorrow i start back at work..... First time in years i am looking forward to going back to Work.
 
This may sound negative but it's not meant that way it's more that nobody in any words can prepare you for this little person coming into your life and how it will affect you.
 
btw the counting to 10 thing sux.... the walking away hugging the dog, crying and using his ears as a towel is better :blink:.
 
As to show im not all miserable more pics added.
 
FAO Jas: leave these alone or im gonna slap ya :boxing:
 
http://www.smite.eclipse.co.uk/isabella/
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Blunt on September 03, 2007, 03:41:37 PM
grats mr & mrs Dewey:D


she's giving you the bird already
(http://www.hull.ac.uk/designs/izzy/images/Picture-335.jpg)

told you girls were trouble:lmfao:
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: DuVeL on September 03, 2007, 03:42:47 PM
Quote from: Dewey;204040Hi Smite, made me laugh when I read your post as a new father myself -
 
Isabella Dewey born on 4 August - can't be far of when yours was born (and good name chosen my man :D
 
Like you I feel its been a huge change, but one I'm enjoying, yes its hard when they cry and cry though izzy only cries when theres something wrong so I can't fault her for that. And though I'm biased as hell I think she's gorgeous :)
 
http://www.hull.ac.uk/designs/izzy/
 
Sleep is for wimps!! :woot2:

Also congratz to you Dewey!
Comment at Picture-271, within a few months she'll have more hair then you :flirty:
 
Nice pictures Smite.
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Penfold on September 03, 2007, 03:56:33 PM
Wondering when we were going to hear from you Dewey

Many many congratulations to both Dewey and Smite !!

:yahoo:


PEN
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: King on September 03, 2007, 04:02:42 PM
Well done smite, and congratz from all of us.( me my wife and my two suns)
 
I now have brian he is almost 4, and kevin he is now just one year.
So i know what you are talking about.
 
And if you think you have a lot of work with her now just wait a view years!!!!!!!!!!!!
BTW They grow op verry fast, the time is gone before you know it.
 
Well now good luck and enjoy your time with the little one and your wife.
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: smite on September 03, 2007, 05:09:34 PM
Quote from: Dewey;204040Hi Smite, made me laugh when I read your post as a new father myself -
 
Isabella Dewey born on 4 August - can't be far of when yours was born (and good name chosen my man :D
 
Like you I feel its been a huge change, but one I'm enjoying, yes its hard when they cry and cry though izzy only cries when theres something wrong so I can't fault her for that. And though I'm biased as hell I think she's gorgeous :)
 
http://www.hull.ac.uk/designs/izzy/
 
Sleep is for wimps!! :woot2:

Congrats Dewey....
Cracking name. See good taste.
 
Very arty pictures there mate.... and yes she is cute. :D
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Dewey on September 04, 2007, 09:00:56 AM
Thanks for all the well wishes guys it means a lot :)

Smite when was your little girl born? Sorry I forgot to say she is cute too - some babies look frugly but ours look gorgeous :)

And I'd like to thank my wife for saying its cool for me to come to the LAN - woohoo!:woot2:
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Bastet on September 04, 2007, 03:21:45 PM
Grats Dewey, and i wouldnt get to excited about going to the LAN yet, youll bound to pay a price for it later :narnar:
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Gone_Away on September 04, 2007, 04:31:20 PM
Just saw this.. Congrats Dewey..
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Dewey on September 04, 2007, 04:35:36 PM
Quote from: Ninja_Freak;204199Just saw this.. Congrats Dewey..

Cheers mate - looking forward to seeing you at the lan :)
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: smite on September 04, 2007, 04:57:01 PM
Quote from: Dewey;204145Smite when was your little girl born? Sorry I forgot to say she is cute too - some babies look frugly but ours look gorgeous :)
She was due on the 4th born at 21:29 on the 8th. Wish it was next year now...would have been easier to remember 8/8/08.
 
I refrain from saying anything about how she looks as parents can have serious beer goggles about there kids. Think ours are fookin Gorgeous though.....ssssSssshh don't tell anyone.
 
Quote from: Dewey;204145And I'd like to thank my wife for saying its cool for me to come to the LAN - woohoo!:woot2:

Not even going there...... She may want a weekend away at some point :P
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Thulsa Doom on September 04, 2007, 05:01:56 PM
Quote from: BlueBall;203936It would take two hours just to get from the house to the car to go out somewhere

That is so true.  Damned annoying isn't it.
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Cadaver on September 04, 2007, 05:13:50 PM
Congrats Smite & Dewey, and your respective Isabella's. :yahoo:
 
So that's you two, me, and Le Rouge who became parents in August (if I've counted right).  They must've been putting summat in the water last November.
Title: dMw New Fathers League
Post by: Penfold on September 04, 2007, 05:16:11 PM
:withstupid:
 
I've had less trouble getting a platoon out on manoeuvres than getting the missus and twins into the car :lmfao:

PEN