I don't post very often as you will know. So it has taken alot for me to post this, I do not want to upset anyone but to be honest i am really fed up with being ignored. When i log on I say hi to everyone and on the rare occasion that some one say hi back. I know i don't raid but it can be quiet upsetting when bell logs on and says hi and everyone answers him and when i log on 2 mins later complete silence. It is not just me but alot of the non raiding members get ignored. I join this guild because bell said it was a great guild and it is and i have made some great friends and the lan was great to. But please can you have some consideration for non raiding members, I know when you are raiding that you can not answer people but alot of the time people are just in dalaran it dosen't take much to say hi, it is two letters.
Sorry it this upsets anyone but it has taken me a long time to get the courage up to say this.
Well if ya join when im on ill make sure ya get a reply with no less than 2 letters :)
It may just be peeps are busy killin somthing and when they are done the moment has passed it happens to me all the time. Tho I always feel warm inside when I see guildy peeps come online
Faling that jump on ts and shout loud till they bend to your will ... and the other thing is bell swaps toons like every 20 secs so i dont know if u logged on or he swaped
I usually says hi to all that logs on, if i dont ... its a mistake. I can sometimes forget if im healing a hard instance, but i'll make it better from now on ;)
I disagree Jas, I have often given those very same reasons to Rob when he points out exactly the same thing to me as Ez has in this post.
Very few of the raiders take time to acknowledge the non raiding members in the guild to the degree of out right blanking them & it has to stop, especially if we are to continue to call ourselves a social raiding guild.
There is no prerequisite to join this guild that states you must raid, so come on guys, be social.
One of things I notice is the seeming reticence of (most) members to do things like daily random heroics. I do them on all my toons every day and very rarely get responses to my regular ghcat shout of "random anyone?". Bell, Sheep have responded regularly and we knock out 3-4 heroics on the trot to do all their toons, but very few others respond regularly. It would be nice to see the response level go up given that most take less than 20 mins and deliver 2 frost emblems and some triumph badges.
What I have noticed though is that we do seem to have a bunch of people who are at work and in WoW so are often alt-tabbed talking to the boss when someone else says hello. So I would not necessarily be upset with those people, but the others have no excuse. A good shout of "HAI" to welcome people online is always welcome and should be incouraged - clearly not *everyone* needs to do it though or gchat will become just one long list of HAIs and that would be nuts :)
I concur with Ez's sentiments.
It does feel like a two tier guild of raiders and non-raiders. Looking over the Guild's 'Mission Statement', it seems that the Guild has moved away from the principles on which the Guild was established, which is reinforced by prominent, established guild members moving some or all of their characters elsewhere.
Don't get me wrong, there are some great, sociable, team-spirited members in DMR. It would just be nice if us non-hardcore members were acknowledged every bit as much as you more dedicated, longer-serving peeps.
Robert
aka Treekin, Katee or Fixxit, as the mood takes me
Thank you for the replies, i do know that some people get busy with raids but alot of the time people are just sat in main cities. I don't want to be a moaner, but I do love being in this guild and one of the reasons I left my last guild was for this reason. Again thank you for the replies it makes me feel alot better and more incouraged to post in future if I do have a problem or I have a good idea.:)
Not sure who you have in mind there Walrob, but I do not think the split is raiders & non-raiders at all, I totally disagree with that postulation.
It does not matter what rank people are when they log in, that has nothing to do with whether or not they get a response. Likewise, I often get very little response from both raiders and non-raiders alike when I log in (as posted above), so let's not try to create a two-tier duiscussion as that really does not bear witness to reality.
Bottom line is, speak to each other and stop being silent in gchat.
During a raid, you can excuse people for not responding, they are busy as you I am sure will understand.
Quote from: JonnyAppleSeed;305549... and the other thing is bell swaps toons like every 20 secs so i dont know if u logged on or he swaped
I do not toon swap every 20 secs more like every 30!:roflmao:
By the way. I absolutely hate everyone who in gchat is currently not talking to me.
The fact that I am the only one online is a mere inconvenience to the truth.
I gotta agree with Ezflow, the last 3 times ive been thinking about returning to wow, i log in and say hi and i get like 2 reponses at the most.. and then decides no ty and logs off again
but then again, most sections of dmw is starting to show this behavior
That's no my experience Kreg. I log into other games and always get hellos in-game or on TS. DMR gchat can be a little backward in coming forwards, it is certianly not a community-wide issue though.
I've had this too, but I just put it down to people being busy now. As I too now miss people saying "hi" sometimes :/
I've got my chat window setup in tabs, so when im in a party/raid I don't see any guild chat etc. But I do have a guild tab, so I can always go back and see who's said what and fill in any blanks I need too.
Quote from: TeaLeaf;305560Not sure who you have in mind there Walrob, but I do not think the split is raiders & non-raiders at all, I totally disagree with that postulation.
It does not matter what rank people are when they log in, that has nothing to do with whether or not they get a response. Likewise, I often get very little response from both raiders and non-raiders alike when I log in (as posted above), so let's not try to create a two-tier duiscussion as that really does not bear witness to reality.
Bottom line is, speak to each other and stop being silent in gchat.
During a raid, you can excuse people for not responding, they are busy as you I am sure will understand.
I am resolute in my postulation that, whether by coincidence or design, those who do raid on a regular basis almost always greet fellow DMR members who also raid likewise, whereas those of us who raid infrequently (or not at all) receive greetings far less frequently. The majority of those who do greet those of a non-raiding persuasion are themselves non-raiders, although there are exceptions to this as implied in my previous post.
It would appear that the reality TL percieves and the perception of reality of others differs somewhat, but this can be readily explained. All individuals percieve their own version of reality; actual reality always lies somewhere in-between the perceptions of all who perceieve any given event, some perceiving the event more accurately than others. In this case, the weighted majority opinion would seem to indicate that there is some evidence that my postulation has some considerable credence.
I would whole-heartedly agree with the sentiment of TL's forthright (and refreshingly concise) extracation that it would indeed be good if we could all be a little more friendly towards each other and chat more readily.
As for Guild Raid Nights, I rarely chat while the guild is raiding, let alone expect a greeting as I log on. I am well aware of what the raiders are attempting and I in no way want to be a distraction. Given the proficiency of many of our raiders, this would almost certainly not occur, however I am mindful of this nonetheless.
I am sure that I could have put this all far more succinctly, but I like to reply in kind and it wouldn't have been so much fun.
Robert
aka Treekin, Katee or Fixxit...who knows who I'll be next :-)
All I'll say is that I'm a non-raider myself in DMR, so I have given a social member perspective! I'm not saying we're perfect, but if people talk to each other then things become a lot easier and more settled.
More guild chat (no 'lolchat' though) please, so greet members and engage with them.....don't ignore them!
Ill try harder to reply, I know i forget and even forget to reply to whispers. No offence im just slo .... w.
Quote from: TeaLeaf;305575That's no my experience Kreg. I log into other games and always get hellos in-game or on TS. DMR gchat can be a little backward in coming forwards, it is certianly not a community-wide issue though.
guessing people just dont like me then, good to know :)
I think one of the issues is managing your expectations. If you expect that every member will always say hello then you'll be disappointed every time, guaranteed. Set more realistic expectations and you'll probably be surprised & pleased. That's no excuse for not saying hello, but it recognises that not everyone will see the log on every time - take me yesterday morning, I was online & alone in DMR and a couple of hours later suddenly noticed 2 people had logged on (I was doing my heroic runs), I didn't deliberately ignore them, but I could not say if they had said hello or not as I was distracted with what I was doing. Not receiving a flock of hai's does not mean you are not liked though!
Quote from: kregoron;305664guessing people just dont like me then, good to know :)
Well I likes ya!! Not the same on WoW without a Loveduck to joke about with!
/wave
Quote from: Ezflow;305547I don't post very often as you will know. So it has taken alot for me to post this, I do not want to upset anyone but to be honest i am really fed up with being ignored. When i log on I say hi to everyone and on the rare occasion that some one say hi back. I know i don't raid but it can be quiet upsetting when bell logs on and says hi and everyone answers him and when i log on 2 mins later complete silence. It is not just me but alot of the non raiding members get ignored. I join this guild because bell said it was a great guild and it is and i have made some great friends and the lan was great to. But please can you have some consideration for non raiding members, I know when you are raiding that you can not answer people but alot of the time people are just in dalaran it dosen't take much to say hi, it is two letters.
Sorry it this upsets anyone but it has taken me a long time to get the courage up to say this.
for my self i can say i dont say hi or good bye to any1 due to that exact reason i dont wanna upset any so i rather just not say hi or good bye as it wont have an effect. i do understand what you mean and i think every1 knows the feeling, but life is to short to get upset by it none means any bad to you or any one else who dont get a hi or good bye.
Well, I'm not a wow'er, but I have always said hello no matter what server/game I am joining.
No reply can mean 3 things.
1. no-one cares
2. no-one saw/heard
3. people are too busy fighting for their virtual lives, or knitting a spell pouch or summat.
don't take it too personally.
as long as you say sorry for a TK you're ok:D
Hi all,
Just found this thread as I have been reading through the posts. I myself am guilty of missing the hello's and goodbye's that occur in gchat. but to be honest I hate typing in game. That is why whenever I log on into WOW I also log into TS, come join me and have a chat. I find that chatting on TS builds much stronger bonds with the other members of the guild, whether you raid or not. And amazingly when you are on TS you find that you get invited into more groups with other members of the guild. Go figure.:g:
Also take in account most 'regular' raiders have each other listed as friends so when ever they logon you dont only see it but also get a sound alerting you to the loggin.
i dont always say hi and especially not to everyone cos some times there is someone logging on every 5-10 sec and i seriously dont see the point in saying hi every 5-10 sec, but when i see someone saying goodevening i do try to reply...keep in mind we are all humans and we make mistakes :g:
And we are all social in a different way... What's normal to one is not usuall for an other....
I always say hi unless my screen needs attention.... taunt... shield slam tab target revenge....thunderclap :D