apologies for the last ZGraid (1th of april 2006)

[lunares]

After the Snake boss i went a bit out of my bounds and got angry for some reasons the people who where there know. I want to apologise for that. I should not have gotten angry at the time. Hence i went afk to cool down and went on with the very good run (yah for blizz for resetting the instance 5 hours to early, we had an apointment with hakkar). I would like to explain my reasons for getting angry so people might understand it. As people may know i am kinda sensitive for comments and healers well are easy to blame. This time a warrior got a bit angry (in my opinion he did) that he died at the venoxis (snake boss) fight. He said some things which made me angry. There are 2 reasons why i got angry
1: I dont like beeing blamed. (even if he has a good reason to blame)
2: I get kinda angry (angry at myself that is) if someone dies in my group.
At that time it was the last drop and got angry which should not have happend.
there are a few things i want to comment on this.

Things i can do myself
1: I need to take those comments not too personal which i do.
2: I need to stay cool which also improves healing.

Things i can not do myself
1: dont blame healers too easy. If they make a mistake you see it with ease. Unlike some other classes like a rogue (if he gets too much agro he dies and the rest goes on)

I dont have seen much healers whining about getting agro or dieing. We dont do it that much so plz dont do it yourself too much also.

I dont want to say that you should not give advice cause we do make mistakes (we aren't bots). but try to keep it in a good manner and do not over do it. I know that irritates me like hell and prolly also other healers.

This has become a long post but it feels good to get my opinion writen down.

Lunares

[Gorion]

theres no need for an apology, we all have our anger bursts sometimes..

[opticalrush]

well we can all be mad at Blizzard  :narnar:

[Knabbel]

Lunares, we all have our angry moments.........walk away man (which you did).....

I understand what you mean by being angry on your self, I have it in a 5-man party, it's kinda like "Oh no not on my whatch!".....

It went great yesterday even after I ran into mobs because I was so excited about my new leggings  :blush: ......n00bish me...  :roflmao:

And writing things down can resolve stress......

Daedalus.

[Sinap]

http://i43.photobucket.com/albums/e386/kli...lettucenose.jpg

Read the chat at the bottom and notice where they are....

I lol'd

[Mazii]

rofl lame, Sinap

And np Lunares

[Deadlyspirit]

yeah np luna. you did your job.

I used to play healer my self ( druid / priest ) so know the feeling. And yes we all gets mad sometimes.

and never get mad on your self becouse a member dies, that will happen from time to time.

[Ragnarh]

I'm guessing that all in the raids don't like wipes , and thus try their best to avoid sutch things. We all want the same basicly , challenging raids that are sucsessfull.

So when I die in a premature pull or bossfight I just call for the nexst tank and try my beast to shuttup . Shitt happens. Others seem more apt to blame ppl for my deaths or other MTs deaths on healers ,but sometimes  ouor  luck just runs out and we can't be saved.

The point is  I know how irritating it is having others telling you how to play your class when you are doong evrything right but you just have bad luck.
(resently had a pallie tell me how to pull in strath, in a PUG, then have him telling us all what to do the rest of the raid, when we all knew what we were dooing.) Not leaving the others cause of him was hard  <_<