Apologies for leaving the raid early but no apologies for leaving the guild

Started by Niel, March 21, 2013, 11:37:42 PM

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Niel

Hi All,

Apologies for leaving the raid early - very overly dramatic etc etc etc.....but i had ran out of juice i am afraid and i am pretty ok at the job i do in the raid guild as far as healing goes and have an expectation that my opinion on my job in the raid should be listened to properly.
 
As explained to jas my meter had ran out of change as i expect a certain level of respect when being spoken to and do not appreciate being spoken down to repeatedly ( and this is by no means the first occasion and it is something very regular )......this is something many have suffered from and i am afraid it should not be that way.

Now.....after a long discussion with Jas we were at the position of everything being ok....but to be told that i should apologise to all as seemingly i was the one in the wrong and we make allowances for someone else's "special ways" is just not good enough and this unfortunately lead me to leave the guild as i see no way forward with this.

Don't be strangers and see you all around i am sure.

Cheers

Niel

EDIT - TL  - i do appreciate that you do an awful lot of work on behalf of the guild in DMR. It's a thankless task with lots of annoyances. However, you do have a habit of talking down to people that is difficult for people to take as the tone and the message is in way condescending way targetted to put people down whether you mean it that way or not......that's how it comes across.

Wondering how long before this post is deleted ;)

JonnyAppleSeed

"seemingly i was the one in the wrong" nope first blame Jas

After talking I do believe you were in the wrong tho. Your meter running out left 9 people sitting in the instance so to request a small apologetic gesture would not be out of order. You bailed on TS and quit the guild before I finished the sentence.

Im sorry and disappointed you feel the need to quit dMr.  


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